1. It's virtually impossible to play more than one encounter at a time with 5- and 6-year olds. And even then, if the encounter goes over 45 minutes, they're pretty much hopeless.
2. The math isn't a horrible barrier for 5- and 6-year olds. But with the focus on die rolling and math, the roleplaying immersion is easily lost, because it takes everything they have to make it work. This goes for me too--since I'm keeping track of the girls' HP in addition to the monsters, I'm involved in every move, and it's easy to forget to do things like roleplay the villain and have him taunt the players.
3. A level 5 encounter is waay too much for my party of level 1 players. If you've played Twisted Halls, you know the final encounter: three level 3 soldier skeletons, 1 hulking zombie, and 1 necromancer. The necromancer doesn't even get involved until one of the undead perish. Even so, the party was pretty overmatched, with our slayer going down in the second round, and damage dealing far outstripping the healing abilities of the party. And that's even with Smite Undead dispatching the zombie down the hallway for several rounds (pushed 6, can only move 4 squares).
I ended up having to fudge rolls like crazy to keep the party afloat. Even so, everyone was bloodied by the end, and everyone had spent ther healing spells and second wind.
4. Not playing often makes me feel frantic to play whenever we do have a chance to play. We ended up playing several times per day for three days in a row, which I think we starting to get old for everyone at the end of the day.
I don't have a solution for #3, aside from more slowing increasing the difficulty level than I had been doing. But I may have a tentative solution to #1 and #2: Maptool.
Maptool is a package that allows you to conduct DnD games (or most other games) online. This is why I looked at it in the first place, as half of the group lives two hours away and we only get together every few months.
Thanks to the impressive work of other Maptool users and developers, however, there are frameworks available for download that allow for varied levels of integration of 4e rules directly into the software. Some essentially are designed to just help you keep track of each PC and NPC's stats, and leave it to the DM to impose damage, conditions, etc, as appropriate. Others are more in depth and allow you to automate many aspects of DnD combat.
|MapTool + Rumble + Masterplan is amazing.|
It does take some time to learn how the framework operates, and to get the characters and monsters into the software. But when you do, the result is something that almost resembles a video game! I think this will work very well for my group. Going back to the problems above:
1) This should speed up combat dramatically. What was once a minute long sequence of rolling, adding bonuses (kids take a while to do this), announcing the attack number, rolling damage, adding again, announcing the damage number is now three clicks: once to select your attack power, once to target, once to hit "ok" (assuming no modifiers are needed like CA, but even that's just another click away). The faster the combat, the more focused everyone will be at the "table."
2) Less math. There still will be some, and I'd like them to be aware of it. They'll see the numbers, and we'll talk about damage modifiers now and then. But at the same time, they'll have more fun if they can focus on the roleplaying, rather than just adding attack modifiers to dice rolls. It also frees me up a lot. I won't have to try to remember every status effect (even with colored hair band markers, that's hard to do) and everything else going on, which will make it easier for me to roleplay as well.
3) While this doesn't directly solve the problem of encounter difficulty catching me off guard, it will allow me to playtest challenging encounters on my own really easily. I want to do the occasional level+3 encounter, but I want it to be possible! With Rumble's framework all set up, DnD plays like a video game!
That said, I will have a hard time fudging attack/damage rolls using the software, so I'll have to have a back-up intervention scenario should I achieve a TPK...
4) We get to play outside of family gatherings. By playing online, we can be less frantic about getting our gaming in when everyone gets together. This should make family events less about DnD than this past Thanksgiving was. I know I'll like that, because it'll let me care a lot less about whether we get to play when people get together.
Anyway, I'll have more on MapTool (and Masterplan, which I'm also using and loving) in the future. But if you haven't checked it out, you should really do so. I'm looking forward to giving it a whirl with actual players....once I get my monsters and maps all set up for our adventure! :)